Maybe it’s because the New Year’s holiday and my birthday fall in the same week forcing me into much more self-evaluation than I am equipped to handle, but I have been thinking a lot about the oh-so-popular “I am enough” movement. At the start of 2015 the phrase has become the rallying cry of the anti-new year’s resolutions crowd: “you are enough. You don’t need to change. You are perfect just as you are.” Except that sometimes you aren’t perfect just as you are. Sometimes you suck. Sorry but it’s true.